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My Engineers Notebook Jenn Dandrea

My Engineers Notebook Jenn Dandrea My Engineers Notebook Jenn Dandrea My Engineers Notebook Jenn T. DandreaJenn T. Dandrea is a liaison engineer for the 747 airplane program at Boeing Co., where she repairs and replaces damaged or broken aircraft parts during manufacturing at the companys facility in Everett, WA. Jenn, who served as an intern with ASMEs Early Career Leadership Intern Program to Serve Engineering (ECLIPSE) from 2008 2009, is also a triathlete and is currently training for a half-Iron Man competition. She is the past chair of ASMEs Western Washington Section, and a member of the Committee on Early Career Development and the Volunteer Orientation and Leadership Training (VOLT) Development Committee. She has been an ASME member since 2004. Whats inside your engineers notebook? There are lists of airplane part numbers and airplane issues I have to look at. There are also phone numbers of people I have to contact, and checklists of what I need to take care of during the d ay. Its got work stuff. Its got personal stuff. And its got lots of doodling. Whose notebook would you most like to peek into? Why? Jenn T. Dandrea Joe Sutter. Hes considered the Father of the 747, which is the program I work on right now. I recently read his book (747 Creating the Worlds First Jumbo Jet and Other Adventures from a Life in Aviation), which is probably very similar to looking into somebodys notebook, although it welchesnt very technical. Its all about changing the JetAge of the world going from small passenger airplanes to the 747, which is the largest commercial airplane that we have. Joe started out at Boeing as an engineer, and worked his way up to become vice-president of the program. It would be really interesting to landsee what his daily tasks were as an engineer on the program. Its 2012, and Im working on two sections of that airplane the 41-section, or nose of the airplane, and the 44-section, where the wings meet the body. Theyre two very critical section s of the airplane. And we still work to documents and design drawings that were done in 1967. We have not updated them. Looking at his notebook would not only be valuable for the information, it would also be valuable for my job and my career. How and when did you know you wanted to become an engineer? Probably senior year of high school. Until then, I had wanted to be either an astronomer or the first female NBA coach, which really welchesnt going to get me very far. Junior and senior year of high school, I took auto shop. We had a full, three-car lift auto shop. Changing engines, spark plugs, brake pads. The teacher was a former pit crew chief for NASCAR. He knew his stuff. It was awesome. In my senior year of high school, I was starting to look at colleges, and really started to look at my future and looking at what I wanted to do. My auto shop teacher told me, You need to go into engineering. And thats what I did. Whats the most exciting project youve ever worked on? Jenn repair s and replaces damaged aircraft parts for the 747 airplane. I got to do flight testing on the 787, which is the job I just came from before I came over to liaison engineering. The 787 is Boeings brand-new, all carbon-fiber airplane. Its the first carbon-fiber commercial jet in the world. I got to fly around on an uncertified, experimental aircraft, verifying the design limits were honigwein for safety-of-flight. We were testing environmental controls on the aircraft I was on, so we got to take the airplane down to a cold chamber at Eglin Air Force Base in Florida. It was a hangar, essentially, a building that fit the airplane that we chilled down to -50 degrees Fahrenheit, and we let it snow in there. Its a test to make sure that the airplane could operate in the cold weathers of Alaska. And then we took it over to Yuma, Arizona, and did the complete opposite. We brought the airplane up to 130 degrees to make sure when you turn it on that it cools down properly, that everything func tions, that the doors work, that the engines turn on. I did it for two years and it was the greatest learning experience. You learn how to work in a very high-stress, very demanding safety-critical work environment. I mean, youre flying around on something thats not certified Theres such a small opportunity to do something like that, and I had the ability to not just test an airplane, but to test the newest airplane. What do you think youd be doing if you hadnt become an engineer? Id probably be a teacher. That was my back-up plan to be a math teacher. If I had to do it now, Id probably be a chef. Not only do I like cooking, I actually do pretty well in it. Or I would probably do dog training. I have a passion for dogs. I volunteer at the Humane Society, and I walk the dogs. Whats your favorite hobby or activity when youre not working? Right now, Im a triathlete. Im training for a half-Iron Man. Thats kind of consumed my time, but I love it. It has become very social for me. Im on an endurance sports team. We swim, bike and run together. Its probably what consumes most of my life. And on top of that I play lacrosse for a womens team. Those are my two major hobbies. I have a slew of them, too. Im president of the Syracuse Alumni Club of Seattle, and I volunteer at the local high school teaching math and science. I still manage to cook and hang out with friends. Time management Was there a book or a movie that piqued your interest in science or engineering? The only movie I thought was really cool math-wise was Pi. But thats such a cult film, I dont think Id recommend it to anybody under the age of 18. Its a very disturbing movie, but its very interesting, the math concept and the number pi. Also, any movie that has to do with airplanes I like Pearl Harbor and other World War II-era war films, but this happened after I had already decided to become an engineer. I didnt like airplanes until I started working for Boeing. Who are your heroes, either within the eng ineering profession or in the rest of your life? Michael Jordan was always my hero. Thats why I wanted to be an NBA coach. I loved basketball growing up. I played it. I was involved in the sport a lot. And Im a five-foot girl. I dont belong anywhere near a basketball court. My older brother had a Michael Jordan documentary, and I remember seeing that and thinking it was really awesome. Magic Johnson had one, too. They were just these films I remember seeing and I really found a niche with basketball for some reason. I was just really passionate about it. The whole technical aspect of things deciding to become an engineer did not click until pretty late. Thats actually what Im trying to prevent now by going to high schools and middle schools and speaking about engineering. Nobody did that when I was a kid. Whats the most meaningful or rewarding aspect of being connected to engineering? What I tell the kids is that you can change the world. Whatever you do, it has some impact on hum an life and the quality of life, and youve got to do good things with it. Sometimes people say, Well, you build airplanes. How does that help society? And my answer is, yes, but we also build military aircraft to defend the country. We build supply aircraft that drop supplies or fight fires. And airplanes make it easier for families to visit each other. My family is in New York. An airplane gets me there a heck of a lot quicker than a train or a car. Airplanes bring people together. What does ASME mean to you? Ive been involved with ASME since college. Its given me a wide, broad exposure to different fields within engineering. Ive met tons of people. My network is huge professionally. In college, it gave me a social aspect on top of professional benefits. I stay involved in ASME because its good for my career. Its good for networking. I spent the past two years as my section chair. I volunteer with the ASME students here, at U-Dub (University of Washington) and Green River Community College. Im involved with them and try to offer as much help as they need. ASME is totally worth the time you put into it.What I tell the kids is that you can change the world. Whatever you do, it has some impact on human life and the quality of life, and youve got to do good things with it.

5 Tips for Enjoying Your Vacation from Work

5 Tips for Enjoying Your Vacation from Work5 Tips for Enjoying Your Vacation from WorkThis week, I will be going on a short vacation with the family for the first time since starting my new job, and it got me thinking about how important it is to take a vacation. Taking a break- however long- is necessary to regroup and come back refreshed, yet many employees have worries about leaving work. It seems the higher you go up the food chain at work, the more worried you are about taking days off. The truth is, a vacation benefits both the employee and the employer. Here are some rules you can follow when taking time away from the office.Use Your Vacation Days Vacation time is discussed by human resources- and possibly management- during the negotiation period of a job offer. Vacation time is part of your benefits package that comes with a job for every month you work, you accrue vacation time, and that vacation time might disappear at the start of a new year. If you dont take your free da ys, you are essentially wasting away relaxation time. While some companies might force their employees to take the vacation time they have accrued, others wont, allowing the company to benefit from elend paying you vacation days. In many ways, not taking a vacation only benefits the employer, and not you. Employees wouldnt turn down a paycheck or pay full cost for health coverage, so why give up an opportunity to take the days you worked for? Dont Just Burn Through Them This is hard, but a lot of companies bundle vacation time and sick time, and taking all your vacation time at once leaves you in a tough spot when you catch a horrible cold, your kids get sick, or something more serious comes up. You need to plan ahead and make sure you have some days platzset aside for those unplanned moments that always seem to pop up in life. If you really need a vacation because you hate your job, you may want to set aside some vacation time to use for a job search or interview. Worst case scenar io you have some extra time to play with around the holidays.Plan Around Others Okthis is not a rule, but you will thank me later for suggesting this. A vacation allows you to get away from work and enjoy some much needed relaxation. Imagine one or two weeks of pure bliss no stress. Now, think back to the time when your boss took a vacation. Yes, you might have had more work on your plate, but you didnt have a supervisor around, so you felt more at ease. When you take a vacation around the same time as your boss, you limit your freedom. Make the most of your time and plan time away when others are in the office, both to offset the workload and to stagger absences. Id recommend applying this to lunch as well.Relax That seems simple, but, if you were scared to take your vacation time, you are probably the schriftart of person worried about what is going on in the office when youre not there. You might have the urge to call in, but you shouldnt. Vacation allows you to recharge your ba tteries but it also allows you an opportunity to think creatively outside the office environment, to possibly even employ some outside-the-box strategies when you come back to work. But first, enjoy some me time, time with your significant other, your family, and the time to catch up with friends. This is your time, so make the most of it and relax.Do Work Before You Return One of the reasons why so many people are nervous about taking a vacation is because they are worried about the work pile that will await them upon their return. I have a foolproof strategy for this problem. Before leaving for a vacation, work on or delegate some of the larger tasks that needed to be completed, and leave the easy tasks aside, because they are less burdensome to complete when you return. In addition, take the occasional lull in a vacation to quickly check your email (on your own time) and respond to things that might be urgent. As long as you limit the checking to once or twice during your time aw ay, you will still be able to enjoy the vacation while keeping in mind that you are not piling on work. By doing this, you limit the after-vacation stress to a minimum.Now, schedule a vacation, clear off your workload, and take a moment to recharge.Like What You Read? Sign Up for our Newsletter.Follow me on Twitter. Follow Vault on Twitter and Instagram.Read More 5 Positive Traits That Might Hurt Your Career Tips for Job Searching on the Sneak How To Stop Your Personal Life from Impacting Your Professional Career